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How To Gain 6.3 Kg of Muscle In 30 Days: Skinny Guy’s Uncommon Guide To Bulking Up

by Waqas Hassn

 

I was 25. On a diving boat off the coast of the Philippines. It was my first diving expedition. As we sailed further into the ocean and the island of Boracay sunk into the distance, I thought to myself that life couldn’t be better.

Everything around me was picture perfect – deep blue ocean, jaw-dropping landscape, and a bunch of backpackers I had met a day before while trekking through the rice terraces in the northern Philippines.

Everything was perfect… until I hit my biggest insecurity.

As we anchored at the diving site, everyone started taking their tank tops and T-shirts off to get into the swimsuits. And underneath those tops and T-shirts were the perfect beach bodies: muscular and ripped. In that instance, I almost recoiled, closing myself up, feeling even smaller than I have ever had.

 

If you are a skinny guy, you know how I felt. You know what I’m talking about.

You might have gone to a beach several times and found yourself gawking at men more than women. Insecure of taking your shirt off, you’ve found yourself wishing that you were more muscular.

Or even more so, every time you look at yourself in the mirror in that S-size T-shirt, you find that the circumference of the sleeves is larger than your arms. You hate how thin your arms look dangling from the rim of the T-shirt.

 

To be fair, you might have even tried. More than once, maybe.

You might have bought the protein shake, made a gym schedule, and even spent a month or two lifting weights before giving up every time because of lack of progress.

You concluded that your genes are not ideal to get bulky, and it would take you 1-2 years of dedicated effort: 1 hour in the gym, 5 days week. So once you are done with your exams or the all-important work project, you will start again.

 

How wrong are you?

Well, not entirely. You are 50% right. Your genes are different. You are, what science calls, an Ectomorph. Popularly known as hard-gainers or skinny guys.

Image Source: Bony to Beastly

 

But the thought that it will take you 1-2 years of dedicated effort with an hour every day for 5 days a week couldn’t be further from the truth.

If you follow this uncommon workout routine, let’s call it the TDX Workout routine, it will take you 30-Days with just 30-min in the gym, twice a week. And you will gain between 6-7 Kg of Muscle.

If you continue with this TDX Workout routine for 3 months, you will gain around 11-12 Kg. Unreal, right?

I started with a bodyweight of 69 Kg. After 30 Days, I was at 75.3 Kg, and within 3 months, I reached 81 Kg.

And I was able to lift 300+ pounds in Deadlift.

But most importantly, I had to overcome my lifelong insecurity of being shirtless on the beach, so here it is 😉

Disclaimer: The exercises shown in the video are not part of the TDX Workout. They are only there to look cool! (*rolls eyes*)

 

Before

 

I spent most of my youth as a skinny guy. Till the age of 25, I weighed a mere 62 Kg (136 Lbs) at 180 cm (5 ft 11).

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Look at those arms dangling from the rim of the T-shirt! And this is me during my tenure as the President of ASEANpreneurs (largest student entrepreneurs network of South East Asia). 

 

Not that I was starving myself. Far from it. I ate everything. All the time – including McDonald’s Big Mac meal 15 times a week while in university.

On the other hand, I was fit and sporty as well. Training with half a dozen different sports teams. These trainings included callisthenics and what not.

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During the university years, I joined the gym twice, but after a month of banging my head against the machines without any progress, I made the classic excuse of exams and left it, telling myself that I will return more determined. We all know how that works!

But 2 years after graduation, on the diving boat, off the coast of the Philippines, I made the resolution that I would transform myself.

 

Early Experiments in Bulking Up, resulting in frustration

On my return, I bought a yearly membership of the gym, made the classic workout schedule for 5 days – divided into chest day, back day, legs day, arms day, and shoulder day – and bought 2 canisters of Whey Protein (well, to be honest, there was a 2-for-1 deal going on).

For each of the days, I had 4-5 exercises with 3-5 sets of 10-12 reps each. It used to take about 90 minutes in the gym for each session.

For example, on Chest Day, there were exercises like bench press, incline bench press, decline bench press, fly, and dips.

I was not going to leave any stone unturned… or more like, any muscle unworked.

 

3 months passed by, and the results were, at best, laughable.

I gained around 3 Kg in 3 months. That’s a mere 1 Kg per month, after putting in 30 hours a month on average.

To be fair, a lot of people think that’s how much you should expect to gain. That is true – but only after you have already reached 90% of your muscle-building capacity, you will experience diminishing returns.

In everything in life, what takes you from zero to 90% is different than what takes you from 90% to 100%.

For instance, learning swimming requires a different set of training, as compared to becoming a world-class swimmer once you’ve learnt swimming.

Similarly, going from being a bad photographer to good photographer requires a different approach than going from being a good photographer to National Geographic level photographer.

 

I needed disproportionate results in muscle gain. I wanted to achieve 5-10X faster results than the masses.

In the next few months, I did several experiments with different workout routines. I experimented with HST, P90X, and 3-Day workout routine divided between Pull, Push, and Legs.

In each case, I collected data and took weekly measurements.

Different routines produced different results, with HST showing better results than the others.

However, the results were still dismal. After a total of 6 months in my training, I had gained 7 Kg overall, reaching 69 Kg (152 Lbs).

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At 69 Kg in May 2016

 

At this stage, I burned out and gave up on the idea of working out altogether. I was disappointed with my uninspiring and very average progress.

 

After

 

At the end of 2016, as I was finalizing the idea of starting the 30DayExperiment brand, I stumbled upon the ever-famous quote by Mark Twain, which has brought me back, several times since, out of the grinding mindset.

“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority. Pause and reflect.”

I thought to myself that I’ve tried every routine under the sun, but I’ve not really tried to understand the biology of muscle gain and break it down to its first principles.

That’s where the journey started that led to this TDX Workout routine.

 

Stumbling Upon The First Principles of Muscle Gain

I spent the next several months studying everything I can about the science of muscle building.

From the research papers to books. I even went out and spoke to a dozen fitness trainers. You’d be surprised to know how much conflicting information is out there. Most of it is passed on as conventional wisdom.

It is true that if you stick to any one routine, you will gain a lot of muscle in 2-3 years, and probably even become a professional bodybuilder in 4-5 years.

But that’s not what I was looking for. I was searching for the fastest way to build muscle for an Ectomorph body type.

I was looking for the strategies and principles that will produce disproportionate results.

What I uncovered formed the basis of my transformation.

 

In simple words, here are the 5 Principles of Building Muscle Fast:

  1. Focus on Compound Exercises Instead of Isolation Exercises

Compound Exercises are the movements that require multiple joints and muscle groups to perform the action.

For example, a Chest Press is a compound exercise, because it primarily trains the chest, but also involves shoulders and triceps.

A Deadlift is a great example of compound exercise as it utilises the muscles in your entire posterior chain (upper back, lower back, gluteus, hamstrings, and even biceps).

 

  1. Number of Sets and Reps Don’t Matter. Reaching Failure Matters.

“The last three or four reps is what makes the muscle grow” – Arnold Schwarzenegger

Next time you visit the gym, look around you. How many people are actually reaching failure? Probably less than 10% in your gym. More importantly, what is failure?

Failure is when you are unable to carry the weight anymore, and it falls over.

Most people put the weight back in the rack, just before reaching failure, out of the fear that it will fall on them.

Even worse, many people use trainer buddies to assist them during those last few reps. Having a buddy means that you will never hit a failure.

Failure is a stage when your muscle fibres have broken enough that you can’t keep holding the weight, or you can’t lift the weight up once it’s on the rack.

For the fastest muscle growth, you need to hit the failure in each of the compound exercises in each gym session.

I’ve shared the compound exercises and how to perform them below.

 

  1. Increase Weights in Each Session. Measure Strength.

Each next workout session should have a higher load than the previous one.

Muscles are anti-fragile, meaning that when you break them, they repair to be stronger than before.

How do you know you are building muscle? By measuring strength increase.

It is very easy to see Before and After pictures, and say to yourself that you’ve come a long way. But when you are in the process of building muscles, you don’t notice the difference much as you are accustomed to looking at your body every day.

The only reliable way to gauge progress is to measure your increase in strength.

If you are able to lift heavier weights in the next session or the next week, then you’ve gained more muscle.

In the 30 Days, I was able to increase my strength by more than 100% in some cases.

Imagine how would your performance change in sports once your strength is doubled, seemingly overnight? I saw my bowling speed (in cricket) or racket speed (in squash) increase almost magically.

 

  1. 72 Hours Rest. No Overtraining.

Probably the single most important principle. You need to take at least 3 days gap. By going to the gym every day, you hinder your muscle’s fast growth.

A muscle takes roughly 3 days to repair to be stronger.

And you can test it. If you reach failure in, for example, Chest Press one day, you will not be able to lift the same weight for the similar reps the next day or even the day after.

But 3 days later, you will be able to lift an even heavier weight for Chest Press.

Training every day is great for endurance, and burning fat to get ripped. But you are not in that stage yet. You need to first pack a large amount of muscle, and break your decades-long struggle with being a skinny guy.

An ideal schedule for you could be training just twice a week (Mon & Thurs, or Tues & Fri), for roughly 30 minutes each (only 5 compound exercises to failure).

 

  1. Eat Everything but Junk.

We are not going for Dirty Bulking, which loosely defined is 50% fat and 50% muscle.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t eat carbs. You need carbs (rice, dairy, etc.) to replenish Glycogen in your muscles that would be depleted after each workout session.

And you need to eat A LOT.

I ate 5 times a day, roughly 600-700 calories in each meal.

Each meal would be your standard portion with proteins, fats, and carbs.

In fact, the number one differentiator in whether you will be able to increase your strength and lift heavier weights in the next gym session would be your diet.

At least 3000 calories, spread around in minimum of 4 meals is a must. Anything more than this would be even better.

Avoid empty junk calories like fast food or nachos. They are worthless and will only lead to fat gain.

 

With these 5 Principles, let’s get into the TDX Workout routine that helped me pack 6.3 Kg of Muscle in 30 Days and 12 Kg in 3 Months.

 

The TDX Workout Routine

This routine is deceptively simple… but not easy. Breaking your muscles to the point of failure twice a week will require high pain tolerance.

In fact, if you don’t leave the gym feeling totally depleted and satisfied, you have not pushed it to the limits.

 

The Exercises

The 5 compound exercises you are going to do in each session are (in this order preferably):

  1. Deadlift
  2. Chest Press
  3. Leg Press
  4. Shoulder Press
  5. Reverse Bicep Curl

The trick here is to use Machines for Chest Press, Shoulder Press, and Leg Press.

This is absolutely critical because you are going to do each exercise to failure. This means that in the last rep, you will not even have the energy to put the weight back in the rack, and it will fall over you.

The machines are designed in a way that the weight doesn’t fall on you (diagrams below).

In order to avoid falling over, people put them back in the rack before reaching failure or use a trainer buddy to assist them. Both these approaches mean you give up a few seconds before the actual failure.

 

The Protocol

For each of the exercises, you are going to do only 2 sets.

First set with heavy enough weights that you should only be able to do a maximum of 7 reps before getting tired out.

In practice, you will be using the first gym session to test out and form your baseline. Your baseline is the weight you can carry for a maximum of 7 reps.

After the set of 7 reps, take a 1-minute break.

This is important for creatine phosphate to get replenished in your muscles, giving you the strength to lift again.

Then you will increase the weight by 2-5 Kg for all the exercises.

Usually, for the bigger muscles groups, e.g. chest and back, the increments can be of 5 Kg, while for the other 3 exercises, increase the weight by 2-2.5 Kg.

With the heavier weight, you will do only 3 reps, and hold the last of those 3 reps in mid-air until your muscle completely fails, and you are not able to help the weight from falling.

Key here is to do each of the reps in both the sets with zero momentum. Take 4 seconds to go up, and 4 seconds to come down.

You will notice that a lot of beginners in the gym are swinging their arms with momentum, rather than controlling both the upwards and downwards motion precisely.

After each exercise, take 3 minutes rest, before moving on to the next.

When you return after 3 days for your second workout for the week, do all the same exercises, but start with higher weight for each of the exercises.

 

Here’s my exact 30-Day chart with weights, and body mass measurements.

You will notice that towards the end, for some exercises, I was not able to increase weights in every gym session, and had to do both 7-reps set and a 3-reps set with the same weight.

This is typical. As your muscle size grows, you will start seeing diminishing returns. The law of diminishing returns applies to everything in life.

The growth will be explosive initially and will slow down later.

That is why I gained 6.3 Kg in the first 30 Days (explosive growth period), and a total of 12 Kg in 3 Months (diminishing returns period).

 

Details of Performing The 5 Exercises

Deadlift

Notice that in the diagram, the Deadlift is starting from the knee height, rather than from the ground. This modification makes sure that the primary muscles being trained in this exercise are the back muscles.

Most often when you are starting out, your leg muscles aren’t developed to lift heavy weights from the ground. Since the barbell is raised off the floor, you can use more weight than you can with the traditional Deadlift.

Image source: weighttraining.guide

 

Performing Deadlift

  1. Place the barbell on the safety pins of the power rack, or any raised platform. The barbell should be just under the knee height.
  2. Load the barbell with your starting weight.
  3. Stand with your legs close to the barbell, and your feet shoulder-width apart.
  4. Grasp the barbell with an overhand grip, with your hands shoulder-width apart.
  5. While bent, keep your back straight and look forward.
  6. Keeping your head looking forward and your back and arms straight, exhale as you lift slowly (taking 4 seconds).
  7. When lifting, push your hips forward and drag the barbell up the front of your legs until you are fully standing.
  8. At the top of the lift, squeeze your hips and pull your shoulders back.
  9. Stay there for 2 seconds.
  10. Inhale as you slowly (~4 seconds) lower the barbell down the front of your legs to the safety rack in a controlled manner.
  11. Repeat.

Tips when lifting heavy

  • When lifting very heavy, hold your breath as you make the lift. This helps to stabilize your body. Exhale when at the top.
  • If your grip starts to fail when lifting heavy, use one hand in overhead grip and the other in an underhand grip.

 

Chest Press

There are various types of Chest Press machines in the gyms. Choose one (either incline, decline, or straight back) and stick to it for 30 Days.

Note down the height of the seat in your first gym session, and keep it consistent. Make sure that all the variables are constant in every gym session, and you only change the weights.

Image source: weighttraining.guide

 

Performing Chest Press

  1. Adjust the seat height so that the handles are approximately at chest height.
  2. Load the machine with your starting weight.
  3. Sit with your back pressed firmly against the back-rest.
  4. Grasp the handles with an overhand grip.
  5. Exhale as you push the handles out, taking 4 seconds, until your arms are fully extended.
  6. Hold the position for 2 seconds. Make sure not to lock your elbows. Keep a little bit of bend in your arms.
  7. Inhale as you bring the weight down in a slow and controlled manner (~4 seconds).
  8. At the lowest position, hold for 1 second without letting the weight touch the rack.
  9. Repeat.

Tips

  • Do not lock your elbows when fully extended.
  • Also, don’t let the weight touch the rack when at the lowest position.
  • Either of these things will mean that you’ll be taking the pressure off your chest. You want your chest muscles to be supporting the weight for all 7 reps in set 1, and 3 reps in set 2.

 

Leg Press

For Leg Press, use the machine that has safety bars in your hand grips. This is absolutely critical when reaching failure in the 2nd set.

Image source: weighttraining.guide

 

Performing Leg Press

  1. Load the Leg Press machine with your starting weight.
  2. Sit with your back pressed firmly against the back support.
  3. Place your feet hip-width apart on the platform.
  4. Release the safety bars.
  5. Inhale as you bend your legs and lower the platform until your knees are fully flexed.
  6. Driving with your heels, push the platform back up, in 4 seconds, to the starting position as you exhale.
  7. Hold the stretched position for 2 seconds, without locking your knees. Keep a slight bend in your legs.
  8. Inhale as you bend your legs again, lowering the platform in a slow and controlled manner (~4 seconds).
  9. At the lowest position, hold it for 1 second.
  10. Repeat.

Tips

  • As you lower the platform, do not allow your lower back to curl up. Keep it in firm contact with the support.
  • Do not lock your knees at the fully stretched position. That will take the pressure off your leg muscles.

 

Shoulder Press

There are various types of Shoulder Press machines in the gym. Choose one and stick to it for 30 Days.

Note down the height of the seat in your first gym session, and keep it consistent. Make sure that all the variables are constant in every gym session, and you only change the weights.

Image source: weighttraining.guide

 

Performing Shoulder Press

  1. Adjust the seat height so that the handles are approximately at shoulder height.
  2. Load the machine with your starting weight.
  3. Sit with your back pressed firmly against the back-rest.
  4. Grasp the handles with an overhand grip. Exhale as you push the handles out, taking 4 seconds, until your arms are fully extended.
  5. Hold the position for 2 seconds. Make sure not to lock your elbows. Keep a little bit of bend in your arms.
  6. Inhale as you bring the weight down in a slow and controlled manner (~4 seconds).
  7. At the lowest position, hold for 1 second without letting the weight touch the rack.
  8. Repeat.

Tips

  • Do not look up. Keep your head facing forward.
  • Do not lock your elbows at the fully extended position, or let the weight touch the rack at the lowest position.
  • At the top, you can shrug your shoulders to raise the weight even higher. This will get your traps involved as well, and help you to get even more out of this exercise.

 

Reverse Bicep Curl

During this exercise, you will face the tension in both your forearms and biceps. That’s what makes it the most holistic arms exercise.

Image source: weighttraining.guide

 

Performing Reverse Bicep Curl

  1. Load the barbell with your starting weight.
  2. Stand holding the barbell using a shoulder-width overhand grip.
  3. Exhale as you curl the barbell up, taking 4 seconds, until your forearms reach the highest possible position.
  4. Hold that position for 2 seconds.
  5. Inhale as you lower the barbell back to the starting position in a slow and controlled manner (~4 seconds).
  6. At the lowest position, hold for 1 second. Keep it controlled, instead of letting it dangle freely using your shoulders.
  7. Repeat.

Tips

  • Keep your body still and arms a bit outside (see starting picture above).
  • Do not swing the barbell with momentum.
  • When starting out, you can use the barbell without any extra weight.

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And that’s it!

Your total time in the gym will be 20% of what most people spend, and your gains will be 80% more than those of average people.

There are a few key strategies that are crucial for this TDX Workout routine to work wonders for you. Especially, these 3 strategies:

  1. Everyone has opinions when it comes to gaining muscle or losing fat. Your friends, acquaintances, and every other person in the gym will give you advice. And once you go the uncommon route, people will try to berate you with their conventional wisdom. Avoid listening to anyone for 30 Days, and then blow their expectations with your results.
  2. Collect data and tabulate it in the Progress Table in every gym session. We overestimate our ability to remember. Treat it as an experiment in which all the variables have to be controlled, and all readings have to be noted.
  3. The idea of this blog is to deconstruct complex skills and routines into their first principles and reassemble them to get disproportionate results. If I’ve promised you 6-7 Kg of Muscle Gain in 30 Days, and you get 3-4 Kg instead, that’s still more than what most people get in 6 fucking months! Over time, you will start getting a grip on the nuances of diet, discipline, hitting failure, and other variables. Keep an open mind, and keep learning.

So what’s it gonna be? Are you going to stay at the level you currently are? Or are you going to transform yourself in 30 Days?

The choice shouldn’t be hard 😉

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When you achieve your transformation, do send me your pictures and story at [email protected].

I love hearing awesome stories 🙂

 

 

Filed Under: 30 Day Experiments, Fitness & Diet

How To Build A Network of Influential People In 30 Days

by Waqas Hassn

how to build an influential network in 30 days

He was a 52-year old actor who has performed in 100+ movies over a career spanning 26 years. I was one of the many background dance performers in his latest theatre. He was everything there. I was a no one.

But as we exchanged Facebook, added each other in our contact list, and decided to meet for coffee next week, I calmly walked away giving him room to meet and greet his fans who had come to see him.

 

Today is Day 1 for you. You are reading this today. If you start implementing the steps in this post from tomorrow, by Day 30 you will have added at least 10 influential people in your network.

And since “Your Network Is Your Net Worth”, according to Porter Gale, you will have increased your net worth by 10X, assuming you don’t have any influential person in your network yet.

 

Who are some of the influential people you will be adding in your network?

Most likely you won’t be friends with Dwayne Johnson or Roger Federer after 30 Days… or ever.

If you end up befriending either of these, I’ll personally fly you down to Australia, treat you at a Michelin 3-star restaurant, bow down to you, and then pick your brain on how you did it!

But for now, influential people are defined as:

1) Decision-makers in companies, organisations, and government

2) People with influence in the digital world through their writing, instagramming, youtubing, etc.

 

For reference, these are some of the influential people in my network:

  • Team leads and senior managers in various large companies
  • Founders and CEOs of small organisations working in a niche but high paying industries (such as independent consulting)
  • Actors, writers, and directors working in theatre and TV in my city
  • Singers and dancers with 100K to 1M+ views on their YouTube channels
  • Entrepreneurs based in about a dozen different countries
  • Media influencers – people running online magazines, TV channels, high-traffic blogs, or high-follower social media accounts
  • Professors in many different universities conducting research on topics of my interest
  • People of influence running Government projects in about 5 different countries

With all of the above, I’ve had at least one coffee session to develop a deeper connection, and exchanged Email, LinkedIn, Facebook, or Whatsapp to stay in touch when needed.

Some of them are even good friends now, and we often meet-up for a social activity together.

 

Since it’s your network, you’re free to choose one or many categories of influential people you want to target.

The important question you might be asking yourself, though, is:

Why do I need to have a network of influential people in the first place?

 

We are living in a NETWORK ECONOMY.

The days of submitting random CVs and hoping to get a job, keep giving auditions and hoping to get a breakthrough, and keep publishing content and hoping that the world will somehow magically find you, are over.

If you are reading this post, chances are you have encountered at least one of these situations:

– Sent your CV (after refining it for weeks) to 50-100+ different companies and got exactly ZERO response. Even worse, someone you know who wasn’t as qualified as you, got a better offer than you because he knew someone in some company.

– Browsed through Craigslist, Gumtree, or Facebook groups in desperate need for a part-time job but didn’t get many responses back. The ones who replied offered below average hourly rate. You concluded that life sucks!

– Published videos on YouTube or articles on your blog only to find out that no one is watching or reading them. Even when your content is much better than someone else’s who is getting tens of thousands of viewers or readers.

 

The world we live in today has different rules.

Today, if you need an interview for your dream job, you need to have someone recommend you to the hiring team.

Today, If you want to get featured on a media outlet, you need to know someone who works there.

Today, if you want freelance independent projects or part-time work for side income, you need someone to refer you for the best gigs.

 

Building a network takes some work up front. But the ROI (return on investment) for your effort is out of the fucking charts!

Moreover, once you develop a small influential network, it will introduce you to more influential people. Before you know it, you will be one of the influential people yourself.

 

Most people will never invest in building a network because they don’t know how to, or how much time it would take.

Building a network is a lifelong activity as there will always be more influential people than you. Through this blog post, however, I’m giving you hacks and scripts that I’ve used, and now you can use to kickstart your network building by adding at least 10 influential people in your network in the next 30 days.

You will never have to look for jobs and opportunities the common man’s way again!

 

Let’s divide the process into 4 Stages:

  1. Mindset: The Subtle Art of Not Asking for Favours
  2. Prep: Building your Personal Brand
  3. Approach: Taking a Sniper’s Aim
  4. Connection: A Coffee to Remember

Stage 1 and 2 need to be done only once at the start.

 

Stage 1 – Mindset: The Subtle Art of Not Asking for Favours

It’s true that your eventual goal of making a network is better opportunities in job, outreach, etc. But you have to ask yourself this first: Why would an influential person help you?

You might think you are so talented that you deserve a chance. But that influential person gets dozens of people asking him for favours every week/month. He is too occupied with his own affairs, to even think about helping random people who are messaging him.

Moreover, let’s assume he likes your profile. Even then he will be hesitant to recommend you or do you a favour without knowing you because he doesn’t trust you yet.

 

Now visualise this alternate scenario.

You meet an influential person, and you don’t ask for any favours. And for some magical reason, that person himself offers to recommend you or connect you with someone because he feels that he wants to add value in your life.

This might sound too strange for now. In the next 3 stages, we will dive deeper into the ‘magical reason’ and understand how to develop a deeper connection such that you are offered opportunities without you even asking for them.

 

Stage 2 – Prep: Building your Personal Brand

In this stage, I will ask you to develop a small but a killer profile page showcasing your current work / projects / interests.

It can be your LinkedIn profile page as well. Here’s a useful article on creating a killer LinkedIn Profile.

I will, however, recommend having a webpage that showcases you. For example: 30dayexperiment.com/about

 

Why is this important?

To create an illusion of a personal brand.

Influential people are receptive to meeting people who look like personal brands, instead of everyday common people.

 

Let’s say, you write an email to an influential person asking her to meet-up over a coffee. In your email, you even describe yourself as best you can, by mentioning that you have 5+ years of experience in XYZ field, passionate about XYZ, etc. She will still ignore your email right away.

She receives such emails every week.

On the other hand, if you write her a similar email, but this time you add a link to your webpage or LinkedIn profile. She will open it for 2 seconds and immediately get a subconscious psychological tick that you are ‘personal brand’ with a presence online.

She will be much more likely to respond back.

 

To test it, I crafted a message and sent it to 30 different influential people via Facebook messages. In 15 of these, I gave a link to my blog About Me page, and for the other 15, there wasn’t any follow the link.

9 out of 15 people responded back to my message that had a link, while only 3 responded back otherwise.

Even better, the replies were much more detailed from people who had seen my link. These people saw me as a brand, while the others saw me as one desperate guy looking to meet new people.

 

At this stage, it’s fine if you don’t have much meat in your LinkedIn page or webpage. Over time, as you increase your network and accumulate more experiences, you must keep adding to your personal brand.

If you think you don’t have anything substantial at all at the moment, just fake it. Create an illusion of a strong personal brand. With time, you can substantiate it.

 

Stage 3 – Approach: Taking a Sniper’s Aim

If you read anything on the internet about how to build a network, chances are it will tell you to attend meet-ups in your city, look for events where entrepreneurs gather, or attend a talk by an influential person and then after the talk, try to head-burst your way through the crowd to reach the speaker.

It will also tell you to have a one-minute elevator pitch ready so you can pitch yourself purposefully in that magical minute of contact.

Now, I’m telling you to throw all that advice out of the window!

Not because it doesn’t work. It does… sometimes. That’s the common person’s way of building a network.

You might have heard this proverb before, ‘Hardest place to sell a book is at a bookstore.’

It’s also true in this situation.

Hardest place to build a meaningful connection is at a networking event.

Side Info: Hardest place to pick-up a girl is at a bar or a beach party!

Why? Because in each of these situations you are one of the masses.

If you do anything the masses way, then your return on investment of effort and time will be laughable and you will most likely burn out soon.

Mark Twain famously said, “Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.”

 

Instead, if you do build your network the uncommon way, you will have a 70-80% return on investment.

Meaning, for every 10 people you reach out to 7-8 people will end up having a meaningful conversation with you.

 

Taking a Sniper’s Aim. Let the Target present itself.

In an uncommon way, instead of you pre-selecting the influential person you want to meet up, you scan the scene for potential targets.

Your targets are people whose content you are consuming on a day-to-day basis already, but unaware of who those people are.

Your targets are also people who are in a similar group activity or volunteer work you are doing after school / job.

Your targets are also professors or senior managers running the show in your institutions / companies.

 

Let me give you examples of 10 ways I use to scan for influential people. You can use these and more.

In each of these situations, the encounter with the influential person is either spontaneous, or there’s a strong reference point to talk about.

Examples in Digital World

1) You might be reading a few shared articles on LinkedIn every day.

Tomorrow when you do, see the name of the writer of that article and copy/paste it in your LinkedIn’s search bar to find out who that person is.

2) Your Facebook newsfeed might be showing you posts every day from current affairs, to tech magazine articles, diet tips, and anything you are interested in.

When you read any article / post next time, see the name of the person who has written it. Copy/paste it in your Facebook search bar and find out who is it from.

3) You might have subscribed to your local digital newspapers as well (New York Times, The Herald Sun, etc.) and have a few favourite sections to read.

Do a quick Google search to find out the writer of an article you particularly enjoyed.

4) You might be following some Facebook groups in your city that regularly feature profiles of people in your city who have achieved something, such as entrepreneurial ventures, medals, research breakthroughs, etc.

Search these people on Facebook as well.

5) You might be watching YouTube videos every day, or following some content creator on YouTube.

Click on the uploader’s name and it will take you to his profile where you can message him.

 

Examples in Physical World

6) You might be attending social dance classes in your city.

Greet your fellow dancers and trainers to find out what they do. Some of them might be influential people in their companies / fields, etc.

7) You might be attending CrossFit training sessions or yoga classes in your city.

Who are some of the influential people among your fellows?

8) You might be volunteering at an event.

Who runs the organisation you are volunteering for?

9) You might be attending a friend’s birthday party.

Go around the room, greeting people to scan for some potential influential targets.

10) You might be giving presentations or meeting clients as part of your work.

There’s bound to be some influential people among your audience.

Again, these are just some of the situations for reference. You can have many more. 

 

What do you notice in all these 10 situations?

All of these fall in the category of either a spontaneous encounter, i.e. the influential person happens to be attending the same dance class, fitness session or in your audience, or there is a strong reference point, i.e. you stumbled upon an article or a video that he has written / posted.

I’m going to reiterate here that if you approach a person in a spontaneous encounter, or with a strong reference point, you will have a 70-80% return on investment.

Meaning, for every 10 people you reach out to 7-8 people will end up having a meaningful conversation with you.

In contrast, at a networking event, since that’s not a spontaneous encounter, rather a staged one, the influential person there will be approached by dozens of other people, and you do not stand a chance to leave an impact.

 

So far we have defined who are the influential people you are going to target, why you need to build your network, and how you can possibly find them.

Let’s now see the exact scripts I use to send a message or initiate a conversation in a physical encounter.

 

Digital World First-Contact Script

Hey [First Name],

I’ve come across your post/article/video in [name of newspaper / name of Facebook group / LinkedIn / YouTube]. Really inspiring to hear your story/views/opinions on the [mention subject matter]. I’ve particularly resonated with [explain one point further in a sentence].

I’m currently working on XYZ project / living in XYZ city for X number of years. You might have come across some of my work on [topic] / You might have heard of XYZ company where I’m working on ABC project.

I’m writing because I was wondering if you’d be up for a quick coffee sometime this week. My favorite moments are listening to stories of people doing uncommon things / creating an impact.

I would absolutely love it if you can take 30min out of your schedule for a quick coffee meetup. Getting a glimpse about your personality from your post/article/video, I’m sure we’ll have a lot to talk about.

p.s. Here’s a link to an overview of my profile / work in 10 seconds: [LinkedIn URL / Webpage / Video URL]

…

Note: I only reach out to people who are living in my city or in the city I’m travelling to for work or travel.

 

What is going on in this script?

Many things. Let’s dissect it.

1) I’ve created a strong reference point by mentioning that I’ve come across the person’s work. This has already made him feel emotionally elevated and receptive to my message. Everybody loves to hear that their name is flying high on the planet internet.

 

2) By explaining one point further, I’ve differentiated myself from random fans who might be sending generic messages like ‘good work / good post / good video’.

 

3) In the second para, I’ve created myself as an authority by highlighting my work / project.

Note: Even if you are in a desperate situation, never say things like, “I’m currently unemployed looking for job / I hate my current job, etc.”. Influential people only meet people who come across as authority and doing something important. If you aren’t yet, fake it.

 

4) I’ve declared the reason for meet-up as hearing his stories. How much simpler can it get? This is the most powerful line in the entire script. You never ask for favour, or say that you want to tell them more about you. Instead, you show genuine curiosity in listening to their stories.

Every influential person in the world wants more people to hear his story. Classic human psychology!

 

5) At the end, I’ve provided a URL that will make me look like a personal brand with a strong presence / profile on the planet internet as well.

 

Physical World First-Contact Script

I’m going to assume here, you’ve already figured out what the person you are going to approach does.

If not, then you’ve to first find that out. Just approach the people you are meeting at dance class, fitness session, event, party, etc, and do the general greeting.

Hey, I’m Hassn

Nice to meet you!

What brought you here?

What do you do?

Now you are ready to use the script.

….

Hi, how’s it going so far? I was thinking to myself that it’s not an easy thing to do day-in and day-out that you are doing, I’m amazed how you still keep the energy high.

[Wait for the response]

[Comment on the response] It’s admittedly tough! How many years since you’ve been doing it now?

[Wait for the response]

[Comment] Incredible! I’m just so happy that I bumped into you. These days I’m working on a project / working at a firm, but my favourite activity really is listening to stories of people doing uncommon things / creating an impact.

I was wondering if after this session/event/party/meeting, you’ve got 30 minutes to catch up for a quick coffee? If not, we can always do it later this week, when your schedule allows. I’d absolutely love to hear your stories. It will not just make my day, it will make my year.

[Exchange Facebook, Email, Number, or LinkedIn]

…

 

Now, what’s going on in this script?

Some things are similar to the previous script, i.e. not asking for any favour, instead focusing on hearing stories.

Let’s dissect what’s different.

1) Common people on approaching influential people, start acting as fans and idealizing the influential person. Instead, when you will approach and say the first line in the script, you will empathise with them making them feel human and understood.

In the same sentence, you will also give their self-esteem a little boost with an uncommon compliment that no one else focuses on.

Very rarely influential people are approached by random people who seem to understand that it’s a tough job that they are doing; one that requires a lot of effort day-in and day-out.

Pro Tip: Next time you bump into a celebrity, don’t ask for a selfie. Instead use this script 😉

 

2) You also create a spontaneity element by mentioning that you bumped into them. This keeps their psychological wall of defence low.

Fun fact: If you approach a woman in a bar, she will have a 10-inch thick invisible steel wall of defence in front of her that will make it almost impossible for you to breakthrough. If you approach the same woman in a random encounter situation, such as at an event / group training session, etc., she will be totally approachable and willing to open up. (But that’s the topic for another blog post!)

 

3) Don’t stop by asking for a coffee meet-up. That would give them a chance to say, ‘Oh, I’m busy after this’. Instead, in the same breath, mention that ‘we can schedule it later this week’. This leaves them with no room to say NO.

It’s extremely hard for people to say NO to someone straight in the face. I’ve never received a straight NO, and I’ve been in such situations a gazillion times.

 

Stage 4 – Connection: A Coffee to Remember

Congratulations! You’ve already reached this stage. There is no script here, just enjoy your coffee with your new influential contact.

I will just say one thing though.

Don’t try to pitch yourself upfront or start asking for favours. Instead, focus on asking questions out of genuine curiosity about their lives, work, and interests.

However, when hearing their answers, you will often feel that you have a similar experience, interest, or thought that you want to share. That is when you speak about yourself in between the conversation.

Moreover, like every normal conversation, they will also ask you about your life, interests, and plans. That’s when you tell them more about you.

By now they already like you, and most often they will offer assistance, advise, and even volunteer to connect you or refer you to someone.

 

You see what has happened here? Instead of you reaching out to people and begging to get a referral or an opportunity, influential people are offering you referrals and opportunities without you even asking.

And here’s the best part. In doing a favour to you, they will feel good about themselves as they have been able to help a young passionate person like you.

Talk about WIN-WIN!

 

What happens if during the coffee meet-up, they don’t offer you assistance or opportunity?

Don’t fret. You have successfully built a deeper connection. Now you can always email or message them a week later, mentioning that you are looking for XYZ role / performance opportunity / shout-out to their audience, etc., and would love it if they can be of any assistance.

Since they feel like a mentor to you now, they will be more than willing to do what they can.

 

In this post, I’ve dissected the entire process in detail and it might look overwhelming at a glance.

Over time, these steps will become second nature to you. You won’t even be thinking about them in separate stages.

Also, once you have a network of about 10 influential people, you will start to see a snowball effect in your life.

Your existing network will start introducing you to more influential people.

You will start feeling that opportunities are coming to you, rather than you reaching out to them. That is a beautiful state to be in.

 

Once you reach that state, or even when you add the first influential person in your network using this uncommon process, do write me an email at [email protected] sharing your story.

You know by now how much I love listening to stories 😃

 

Filed Under: 30 Day Experiments, Job Hacks

How To Make An Influencing Eye Contact While Talking To People… And Create Your Own Reality Distortion Field

by Waqas Hassn

She had finally said “Yes” to meeting me for a coffee. She was a new intern at work, and I’ve been pursuing her for the last 3 weekly office meetings. Now we had a date.

That evening I got all dressed up, put on my most expensive cologne that I use once a month for special occasions, and met her at a Moroccan Speciality Coffee place.

I’ve been telling myself all day that this time, once and for all, I HAVE TO nail the eye contact.

I’ve read so much about how when Bill Clinton used to look into women’s eyes, they used to feel an extremely powerful intimate connection, like they were the only two people in the room. Or when Steve Jobs used to look anyone in the eyes, he used to influence them into doing anything. The ultimate reality distortion field.

 

Today was my turn to both develop an intimate connection and influence her into taking the ‘next step’.

However, as the aroma of a $22 per cup speciality coffee filled up the air, and she started feeling more comfortable, I found myself sitting there, right across her, but completely failing to maintain the eye contact. I could only do ONE thing at a time: either maintain an eye contact or have a conversation.

Since I was trying too hard to consciously focus my mind into looking directly into her eyes, I was doing a miserable job at speaking in a well-structured and intelligent way. And when she was speaking and I was listening, I can either have my mind comprehend what she was telling me, or focus all my energy into looking at her in the eyes.

You guessed it, right? Neither the intimate connection got developed, nor I had any success in any other way. If anything, I wasted $50 (did I mention there was a 10% service charge as well for serving a stupid coffee?!)

 

You are reading this because you have been there. Many times.

You have struggled to make eye contact as well.

  • You have been in that job interview for which you prepared for weeks, and you googled everything about ‘How to ace a job interview’, only to find out that every article on the planet google asks you to maintain an eye contact but you suck at it.
  • You have been on dates and in meetings, in which you completely failed to maintain an eye contact, even when you know that’s the number 1 rule for having a meaningful conversation.

Or the most common situation:

  • When talking to friends or strangers, you tend to focus your gaze between their eyes or forehead (or on the nose) while speaking to them to give an illusion of looking at them (sorry, it doesn’t work. You look funny!)

 

In this article, I’m going to show you Step-by-Step how I went from being a total noob to routinely receiving remarks like, “Dude, your eyes are your biggest strength”, and so can you.

Over my many experiences, I’ve realised that there are just two key elements of being a great talker: voice tonality (we’ll get into this some other time) and eyes.

  • When you become good at it, your dates (guy or girl) will get completely immersed in your aura when you are talking to them. They will feel special about themselves and often times they won’t even know what is it about you that makes them so attracted towards you.
  • When you become good at it, you will sit in job interviews or client meetings, and you will influence the other person into accepting your offer on your terms.
  • When you become good at it, your public speaking and audience performances will get the crowd hooked.
  • When you become good at it, it’s like a superpower that you unlock within. And the best part is, we all already have this superpower. It just needs to be unleashed.

 

5 Step-by-Step Exercises To Become An Absolute Superstar With Your Eye Contact 

 

1. Notice the Eye Colour of 10 People You Meet this Week

I want you to start at the very basic, just to get comfortable.

For the first few days (or a week), all you have to do is notice the eye colour of 10 people you meet outside your friend circle.

These people could be a person walking towards you on a street, your boss, colleague, waiter taking your order, barista serving you coffee, or someone on the road you stop and ask for directions.

You don’t even need to have the rest of the conversation by looking at them in the eye. Just for a split second, look and observe the eye colour.

The task is to notice the eye colour, remember it, and write it in your notes / checklist.

It is extremely simple (and you might even be thinking that it’s useless) but you have my word, after completing it 10 times, you will already be feeling at least 50% more confident. It will rewire you psychologically.

Since you have never done this before, just doing this, will make you feel good about your abilities. And this would prepare you for the Step 2.

 

2. Maintain Eye Contact with Low-stake Strangers, such as Shopkeepers, Waiters, or Baristas

Your task 2 is that when you order your caramel latte next time, or your beef steak, or while in a clothing store you ask the shopkeeper for that particular faded jeans, you will have to do the entire conversation by looking at them in the eyes.

Most of the time, the person you are talking to won’t be looking back at you because they will be busy taking your order or giving you directions, but that is fine. There will be moments when you will have eye contact. And I intentionally want it to be brief at this stage.

What is happening behind the scenes here? In this stage, you are training your mind to keep thinking clearly while you are looking at the other person directly into the eyes. And this is a very low-stake situation to develop it.

Do it 5 times, and then move onto Step 3 (or you can start Step 3 simultaneously with Step 2).

 

3. Shift to Video Whatsapp Messages Instead of Texting with Your Friends

This is the single biggest hack that has helped me develop not just the eye contact, but also the subtle eye movement required in creating an even more influencing aura.

We are living in wonderful times. Whatsapp messages have made it free to communicate via text, audio or video. Just click on the camera icon on the right side of your text area, and send an instant video message to a friend.

I first started doing it to save time (because a one minute video message saves me five minutes of writing out the similar message), but soon I realised it is much more than that.

In a text message, we only use content to get our message across. In an audio message, we use content + tonality. This already increases our message’s influence by 2x. And in a video message, we use content + tonality + eyes, which makes our message’s influence 4x for a similar text message.

 

Fun fact: I’ve been using video messages to routinely talk to girls I match on Tinder. While other guys are busy using plain text content to win her, I’m using 4 times the power of influence and rigging the game in my favour 😉

 

When you will first start sending video messages to your friends, you will realise that you are looking at yourself in the camera and you are too conscious of how you look.

Your task is to start looking directly in the camera while recording your message.

When you will first do this, you will realise that your mind is going blank and you are not able to think fast and clear.

But if you continue doing it for a week, or even better for 30 Days, you will see such a tremendous progression in you that you will look back at your Day 1 video, and you will laugh at yourself.

That’s the beauty of this technique. It helps your mind think fast and clear, while looking in the camera (or in other person’s eyes while talking) and because you will always playback your video message after sending, you will have a real-time feedback on what to improve on.

At the end of this step, you will already be a better conversationalist than 90% of the people.

 

I’m attaching a small video clip below on how you might initially look and where you want to reach (or become even better).

P.S. You will hate your voice initially. Ignore it. Even the best speakers in the world hate the sound of their own voice. You will get used to it so ignore it. Just focus on your eye positioning for now.

http://30dayexperiment.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/20-sec-clip-Eye-Contact-in-Video-Messages.mp4

 

4. Start Talking to Your Friends and Family Members by Looking Directly into Their Eyes

Which eye you might be wondering? Left or right? Any ONE.

Choose any one that seems more natural. For me, I used to go for right, but now I keep changing between eyes during a conversation. For the start, you can go with right.

Would the other person notice that you are fixated on one eye? No! Because he/she is also looking at you in one eye and wouldn’t see the difference.

Humans can’t look at the other person in both eyes at the same time, so you don’t have to worry about being a creep.

Again there will be a growth curve here. You will first realise that your mind is blanking a bit or you are feeling shy, but it would be much easier to do it now than if you’d directly jump to this step without doing most of the above steps.

As you get comfortable talking to your friends and family members by looking directly into their eyes, very soon you will become a natural at it. And now you are ready to go ALL IN: Step 5.

 

5. Eye Contact with Everyone

This isn’t a new step, this is just a conclusion.

Now that you have already mastered the techniques of developing an influencing eye contact, just go all in.

From interviews, client meetings, colleagues, to dates, just make it a habit to look in the eyes while speaking.

You will also realise that in your public speeches or stage performances, you will naturally be doing more talking with your eyes than your content. Even though you won’t be looking at any one person in the audience, your eyes will be conveying your body language in a way that you will see the crowd being hooked to your presence.

 

Advanced tip:

Once confident, start experimenting with using eye movement to create even more gripping influence. You can use techniques such as squinting eyes while emphasising on a certain word, or opening eyes big when complimenting a girl on how good she is looking.

 

Remember: Your eyes are your most natural superpower waiting to be unleashed.

 

Email me at [email protected] when you try it the first time.

I love reading awesome stories! 🙂

 

Filed Under: 30 Day Experiments, Communication Skills

How To Lose 8 Kg Fat In 30 Days… While Eating Chicken Tikkas & Lamb Kebabs

by Waqas Hassn

Last time I had a coke was on 31st Dec 2015. Made a new year resolution to not have it again.

My everyday meals routinely include pounds of butter, mouthfuls of cheese, and scoops of oil. On Saturdays, I eat 6000 calories of junk food. All year round I stay between 10-12% body fat at about 75 kg.

Most of what you hear about fat loss and dieting produces no results. If you are reading this post, you are a testament to it. How many times you have tried to eliminate oil from your diet? How many times you have tried to avoid red meat or eaten those tasteless overpriced salads? What were the results like? You might have lost a kg or two in a month (Oh, gosh!).

I’ve completed 30 Day Fat Loss Experiments with over a dozen people in the past year and average weight loss for the first 30 days is usually between 4-8 kg depending on your starting weight.

If it is:
90-100 kg – fat loss 4-6 kg
100-110 kg – fat loss 5-7 kg
110+ kg – fat loss 6-8 kg

Here I’m sharing with you exactly what to do to achieve similar or better results, how the biology of fat loss works, and what you have been doing wrong.

 

Section 1: Common Traits of Fat People

Tell me if this is not true. When you see overweight people (or even yourself) who are trying to reduce weight, you see them doing one or all three of these things:

  1. Eat less oily 

I’ve been to several restaurants with friends and acquaintances who are rather overweight. One common thread I’ve observed is that most of these people who are trying to live healthily are conscious of ordering something that is less oily.

They, and maybe even you, are doing this for years. You use less oil to cook, order less oily food, and avoid deep-fried yummylicious dishes.

Time to face the first hard truth: Eating less oily food has nothing to do with your weight loss or weight gain.

 

  1. Run on treadmill

When I go to the gym, I see that 80% of people running on treadmills are fat. They are thinking that if they do it for 30 minutes every day, someday in the distant future they will be slim.

I’ve been going to the same gym for over a year now. And I still see the same faces and same bellies. These people are still running.

Your second hard truth is: No person in the history of this world has gotten slim by running on a treadmill.

Yes, running is useful when you are trying to get rid of those last few pounds of fat and get those chiselled six-packs. But if you are far from it, don’t waste your time. That day will come as well. Very soon. But till then, let’s focus on spending the same time in choosing the right food.

Of course, running keeps your muscles in shape and your stamina high, so feel free to run. I run a lot. Just don’t run with the mindset of burning calories and reducing fat.

And if you are interested in gaining muscles while losing fat, then here is my Uncommon Guide To Bulking Up in 30 Days

 

  1. Eat 2 times a day


Fat people think that eating less, 1-2 times a day, will make them slim. It’s true that if you starve yourself you will lose weight. What you probably don’t know is that you primarily lose weight by reducing your muscles, not your stored fat.

I weigh about 76 kg. If I start starving myself, and let’s say lose 5 kg in 30 days, about 3 kg will be muscle mass and only 2 kg will be fat mass, approximately.

You might think that if you have more fat, your body will reduce more fat than muscles when you starve yourself. That’s not true. It’s easier for the body to break down muscles to generate energy, instead of burning fat to fuel you.

So when you starve yourself and reduce weight, you are basically losing strength and stamina. You are getting weaker. Before you realise you will develop lower back pain and whatnot. Just don’t do it.

So the third hard truth is: To reduce stored fat, you eat A LOT – like 4-5 times a day. And you never miss breakfast.

 

Section 2: Biology of Fat Loss

If you are like most people, you probably think that eating fats will make you fat.

And then if you want to sound a little bit intellectual, you will breakdown fats into saturated fats, monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats, and then transfats. Tell me you have not done this or not found yourself hearing this from other intellectual-sounding people? 😉

I am going to change the biology lesson for you today.

Carbs, and not fats, make you gain weight. 

Carbs = Carbohydrates = Sugar

The entire theme of this uncommon guide will be to reduce carbs from your diet and shift it to proteins and fats.

Most people don’t know if a certain item contains fats or carbs. For e.g., butter, oil, and cheese are usually zero-carbs and all fat. Did you know that? I’ll clear this confusion as well through this uncommon guide.

As a general rule, everything you see in this picture is carbs.

The second theme of this uncommon guide will be to make you eat more. Isn’t it awesome?

Your biggest challenge will be to eat more. 4-5 times a day. Eat all you can!

 

The biology of eating works like this:

If you feel hungry, your blood sugar is below the optimum level needed to burn fat, so your body starts to burn muscle and hold onto fat. Conversely, if you eat a high-calorie meal with a lot of carbs, your blood sugar goes higher than optimum level and body stores those extra calories as fats.

Most people eat big carb-full high-calorie portions of meals twice a day, so essentially they are going from one extreme to the other.

Here’s what happens:

No breakfast – blood sugar low. Body holds on to fat.

Heavy lunch – blood sugar high. Body stores more fat.

6-8 hours gap between lunch and dinner – blood sugar low. Body holds on to fat after first 3-4 hours of lunch.

Heavy dinner – blood sugar high. Body stores more fat.

No food from dinner till next day lunch – blood sugar low. Body holds on to fat after first 3-4 hours of dinner.

TDX fat lossYour goal is to stay within the optimum band

 

From the chart above, your goal is to eat 4-5 times a day, every 4 hours approximately, in moderate portions.

The only carbs you will be eating will be from vegetables and lentils / legumes, as they are low on sugar carbs to spike the blood sugar past the upper limit.

Basically, you will be training your body to burn fat to fuel you, instead of breaking down muscles or carbs.

The way we do it is to feed ourselves primarily proteins and fats.

Our mind gets the signal that it is not going to get carbs so it shifts our metabolism to breaking down fats (both stored ones and the ones you eat) to fuel us.

 

Section 3: What You Are Going To Eat

Let’s talk about the good stuff first.

You are allowed to eat all of these – as much as you want:

 

All Meats – No meat is superior or inferior to another. Chicken, beef, fish, mutton, pork – humans – anything. Eat as much as you want. At least twice a day. Eat grilled, fried, or cooked anyway.

Don’t look if the piece is fatty or lean. Red or white. Thick or thin. Just eat.

Meat will form the baseline of your nutrition. Ignore it and you will feel hungry all day.

All Vegetables – Just like meats, no veg is superior or inferior to another. Eat as much green or red, as you like. Eat raw, steamed, cooked, or fried.

Vegetables will provide you with the necessary dose of carbs. 

p.s. Potatoes are not allowed! I know I said all vegetables are equal – but potato is an exception. It’s too high in carbs so it’s usually considered a substitute of rice.

 

All Daals (lentils and legumes) – Lentils and legumes are a great source of both proteins and natural carbs that don’t spike the blood sugar.

They can be a part of your every meal or you can just have a bowl between lunch and dinner. They are cheap and fulfilling.

 

All Nuts – For your munching habits, you will have to shift you from Lays and Pringles to Nuts (peanuts, almonds, cashew nuts, etc.)

Nuts are high in fats so they will fill you up quickly. A packet of nuts forms a great asset to snack on between lunch and dinner.

 

All kinds of Oils and Butter – Finally someone is telling you not to care about how much oil there is in your meal. Hurray!

Olive Oil is still better for other health reasons (e.g. cholesterol control), but for weight gain or loss, all oils are the same. Feel free to choose any. So is butter. Cook in butter or just eat a butter cube with your tandoori chicken (like I do).

 

Eat everything on Cheat Day – Now the best part of this uncommon guide is that you get one day off every week to eat all the shit you want.

For most people, it is either Friday or Saturday, depending on which night you go out most, and drink and eat junk.

No restrictions on this day. Eat fast food, drink alcohol, eat biryani – whatever makes you feel good.

Start with a proper no-carb protein-rich breakfast to set the baseline right. Then from lunch onwards, till you sleep (or pass out), go crazy on food. Eat 5000 calories if you can!

The psychological benefits of having a cheat day to satisfy your cravings far outweigh any potential negative effects.

Our body can store just as much extra calories in the form of fat in a day. All the excess calories you will eat will be excreted out so don’t worry about eating a lot.

This one day fuels you for the entire next week.

I would not only recommend but emphasize that you stick to having one go-crazy-day every week. Otherwise, you will burn out within a week or two.

 

For all the uncommon people who have completed at least a 30 Day Experiment, binge eating on a cheat day has not contributed in any weight gain or reduced the rate of fat loss.

This is your day! Enjoy. And even take me out for a drink 😉

 

Section 4: What You Are NOT Going To Eat

I have clustered them into the 4 commandments of food religion.

Every time you hit a situation in which you have to ask, whether or not you can eat this, run that item through the list of 4 commandments. If it is there, it’s a forbidden apple. Unless of course, it’s your cheat day.

 

Here are the 4 commandments:

Supplementary carbs – these include bread (both brown or white), rice (both brown or white), roti, parata, chips, fries, biscuits, wrap or crepe, pasta, and breakfast cereals.

These are usually what we eat with our meat, vegetables or lentils / legumes. All of these have to be avoided completely. All of these will result in blood sugar spike and storage of fat.

Even a small portion will hack your mind into thinking that more carbs are on their way, so it will not shift your metabolism to burning fat.

At first, it will seem odd to not have rice in your plate with meat and vegetables. But after a while, it will become natural.

I’ve always found that one way to spot a fat person in an office is to see on whose desk you will find a pack of Pringles. Don’t be that person, please!

The only exception to the rule is oatmeal or oats. 

 

Sugared drinks, sauces, spreads, and candies – this category deals with all coca-colas, packet juices, milo and sports drinks, to ketchups and other sauces in Subway, to Nutella, and candies.

All of these have to be avoided completely unless it’s a cheat day.

But wait a minute, that doesn’t mean you can’t eat anything.

Mayo, mustard and ranch sauces, and peanut butter are all almost zero-carbs and full fat. All of these are allowed.

 

Dairy (milk and yogurt) – Irrespective of whether you are religiously following the above 2 commandments, if you are taking even a little bit of dairy, it can fuck up the rate of fat loss pretty badly.

Same principle: mind gets hacked that more carbs are on their way.

You might wanna ask whether skimmed milk is better than full cream milk. The difference between the two is that one is fat-less and the other is full-fat. Both of them have an equal amount of carbs. Did we say we are avoiding fats or carbs?

Now the great thing here is that cheese is allowed. Why? Cheese is made from milk when you take all the carb component out of it and are left with fats only. Isn’t it awesome?

 

Fruits and fruit juices – Ah, this commandment always receives the most hatred. It’s like ‘Thou shall not have sex outside wedlock’ type commandment.

But unfortunately, fruits are nothing but carbohydrates. They contain fructose, which is converted to glucose – and what is glucose? It’s sugar.

Trust me, you won’t die if you don’t eat fruits. Just leave it till you reach your target weight then you can have them back forever. You shall eat the forbidden apple forever!

But we always have exceptions to the rule, don’t we? Yes, we do!

You are allowed all kinds of berries (strawberries, blueberries, etc.). Go finish the stock in your supermarket!

 

Section 5: Sample Meal Plans

Using all the information above, let me give you some options of how my meal plans and those of other uncommon people look like.

Breakfast (between 8-10am) options:
  • Protein shake in water (1min)
  • Protein shake in water, mixed with peanut butter in a mixer for enhanced taste and more fulfilment (2min)
  • 3-4 eggs – either scrambled, boiled, half-boiled, or made into omelette (10-15min)
  • Lean Shake from GNC (1min) – slightly higher priced
  • Protein bar (should be 20+ grams in protein) – higher priced

 

Lunch (between 12-2pm) options:
  • Any meat dish from any restaurant with vegetables and lentils
  • Beef steak with vegetables (usually broccoli and carrot)
  • Grilled chicken or grilled dory with salad (and mayo/mustard, if available)
  • Hot ‘n spicy chicken / chilli chicken / chicken chop / basil chicken / chicken kebabs, etc.
  • Cooked chicken from supermarket
  • Nando’s (anything), McDonalds (grilled chicken salad), Subway (anything without bread or wrap), or any burger place (throw the buns, just eat what’s within – trust me one of my friends do that)
  • Make your own combination!

Late Afternoon snack (between 4-6pm) options:
  • Bowl of lentils / legumes (masar, moong daal, red beans, yellow daal, orange daal, red daal – whichever you like or find) – get in the habit of eating with a spoon
  • Chicken hams (with or without cheese)
  • Protein shake / protein bar (any combination from breakfast options)
  • Boiled sweet potato (different from potato)

 

Dinner (between 8-10pm) options:
  • Any one from the lunch options

 

Midnight snack (optional) options: I’ve a problem going to sleep if I’m not full on stomach. You can avoid this.
  • Protein shake / protein bar (any combination from breakfast)
  • Bowl of lentils / legumes
  • Boiled eggs crushed with fork and mixed with mayo and black pepper (YUM!)

 

 

Folks, this is pretty much all you need to change your life in 30 Days.

I know once you start it, you will have tons of questions like:
Can I miss breakfast?
Is Alcohol zero carbs? etc.

For this, I have prepared an extensive 6-pages of FAQs that will answer all your questions (pretty much!) and hold you by hand every step of the way. You can download it here: Uncommon Guide To Superfast Fat Loss

 

I can’t wait to hear your transformation stories.

Email me at [email protected] when you see those extra pounds being melt away.

I love reading awesome stories! 🙂

 

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